Sensuality Reads

Sharon Stone Showcases Her ‘Flapjack Ass’ in Mark Abrahams Images for Harper’s Bazaar US September 2015

Natasha Poly Explores Vagina Dentata & More For Lui Magaziner March 2015

Kim Kardashian As Fertility Goddess? A Politically Incorrect Take On Jean-Paul Goude’s Paper Magazine Images Pt 1

‘Angels’ By Russell James Is 304 Pages Of Nude Artistry

Robyn Lawley in ‘Size Does Matter’ By Kenneth Willardt

Pubic Hair Is Back, Announces The New York Times


jd Forte’s ‘The Up and Comers’ & A September 11 Women’s Rights Reflection

18 Vaginas & Plenty Of Talking Points On Women’s Bodies After Sydney University Newspaper Censored

Christina Hendricks Talks Flower Shops & Pencil Skirts By Max Abadian for Flare Magazine May 2013

Marilyn Monroe Photographer Bert Stern Looks To Kate Upton As Next Muse

Red Genitals Not Arousing In Recent Study, But Men Do Tip Red Shirt Waitresses Better

2013 Is A Year of Revelation and Artistic Rejuvenation for Anne

Sexual Politics & Fashion, 50 Shades of Grey Meets YVVY’s Nude Edition


For Sister Margaret Farley Responsible Pleasure Is Not a Sin

Believing in Birth Control Doesn’t Make Me Un-American | 2 Ps in a Pod by Anne

Wilhelm Reich & Sexual Healing Without Fashion Body Armor

Joe Wehner | Anne Enke Unplugged | ‘Talk to Me’ #1

Study | Charming Porsche-Driving Men are Peacocks Seeking Sex

Sensual Dames Love Stockings & Garter Belts from Secrets & Lace

Female Deception | Vagina or Vajayjay

Emmanuelle Alt & Nudity | Vill Vogue Paris Remain A Sensual Beacon?

Sexy Doublespeak | American Women & Sexual Honesty

Heidi Klum & Rankin Could Sell Magnum Chocolate Ice Cream

Selita Ebanks | Kanye West | ‘Runaway’ Full Video Embedded

Christina Hendricks Reveals Our Inner Lilith Woman

The Great Wall of Vagina | Learning to Love Our Genitalia

Body Talk | Owning Vulvas, Clits & G-Spots

Orgasmic Female Brain in ‘La Petite Mort’ | Images Nicola Vallotto

Reflections on Female Sexual Desire: Anais Nin, Marilyn Monroe & Isabelle Allende Join Forces with Anne

Anne of Carversville & Sensuality News do not accept submissions.

Body Image | Self Esteem

Curvy | Size 0 Models

Ashley Graham Tells TED: I’m Bold, Beautiful & Brilliant Even With Back Fat

Lane Bryant Launches #ImNoAngel Campaign Asking Women To Post Selfie Love Across Social Media

France Debates New Fashion Model BMI Laws & Pro-Ana Websites

Doutzen Kroes Says She’s No Size 0 & Wears Her Curves Proudly

Does Fashion Industry Promote Anorexia? So Models Eat Tissue Paper To Stay Thin?

What’s Wrong With Our Bodies Anyway? Plus Model Magazine Asks

Anorexia in Thirds | 1/3 Die, 1/3 Relapse, 1/3 Recover

Franca Sozzani on Curvy Girls, Sensuality & More Body Types in Fashion

Just Say ‘No’ | Programming Your Brain’s RAS System to Hate Size 0 Fashion Ads

If the Supermodels Are Now ‘Fat’, It’s Time To Reprogram Our Fashion Brains

Anne Rethinks ‘Flawless’, Third-Tier Male Photographers & Values That Matter

Cindy Crawford | 90’s Size 6 Supermodels Would Be Plus-Size Today

Pirelli Defines Sensuaity & Fashion Bodies | Arthur Elgort | Karl Lagerfeld

More Anorexia in Kids | Are Girls Afraid of Getting Curves?

‘Black Swan’ | George Balanchine | Battling BMI Beauty in Ballet

‘Just Being a Woman’ | Isabelle Caro Sought Control of Her Body

Lizzie Miller Body Image Model and Beauty Debate Update

Mikimoto Pearl Girls 1972 | Sensual, Beautiful with Clavicle Fat


Charlene White Tweets A Cindy Crawford Reality Check & Now Women Feel Sooooo Much Better

Body Love Articles

Renoir’s ‘The Large Bathers’ 1887How Body Image Affects Women’s Health For Real

Self Love Is Saying ‘No’ to Fashion Body Images You Hate

Every Woman Should Own a Copy of “Uncovered” & Watch Meredith Viera’s NBC “Today Show” Interview with Jordan Matter

Body Psychotherapist Ellen Gayda Defines Body Inhabitance | Do You Live In Your Body Or Has It ‘Gone Fishing’?

Science Pursues Ideal Breast Proportions With Strong Concensus Among Men, Women and Doctors

Self Love Is The Best Beauty Lotion Of All Time For Glowing Skin & A Happy Smile

Stella Tennant on Vogue Italia as Ethel Granger | Body Image Research Update

Gisele Bundchen & Johan Lindeberg Say Basta To ‘Flawless’ Women

Serena Williams Aces Body Confidence in Beach Shoot & Readers Agree

Cameron Russell Says Privilege & Insecurity Make Modeling A Bad Career Choice

Sex & Culture

Erotic Sensuality at its Best - Pt 1 from Vogue Russia

Erotic Sensuality from the Masters - Pt 2 from Bogue Russia

Erotic Sensuality by Master Photographers Pt 3 | Vogue Russia Fall 2012

Kate Upton @ Muse Magazine, Says Gisele Is Footballer’s Wife

Tara, Candice & Robyn | Steven Meisel | Vogue Italia June 2011 | ‘Belle vere’


Ines de la Fressange | 53, French Chic & Divinely Delicious

Every Woman Should Own a Copy of “Uncovered” & Watch Meredith Viera’s NBC “Today Show” Interview with Jordan Matter

New Day Beauty: The Style Individual Is Running the Show

Diet & Health

For a Long, healthy Life, Embrace an Hourglass Figure

Chantal Thomass, Red Wine Is More Sensual Than Coca-Cola Light

Is Marc Jacobs Defying Obesity Science Promoting Diet Coke?

5 Anti-Aging Reasons To Smile Your Way to Good Health & Lower Stress

Health Benefits of Apples ” Rianne Ten Haken By Yu Tsai

Kate Upton

All Kate Upton

Kate Upton Once Asked By Fashion Assostant Why She Would Wear A Cross, Based On Her Reputation

Sensual and Superyoung

Healthy, Sensual Living Blogs

Anne’s Sensual Vitality Blog

Health: Libido, Sexuality, Superyoung Longevity


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'Just Being A Woman' | Isabelle Caro Sought Control of Her Body

Isabelle Caro’s death will inspire a lot of talk about anorexia and body image. Most people will blame the fashion industry, when the discussion just isn’t that simple. (Read my Isabelle Caro Dies, Reviving Size 0 Fashion Model Debate).

Have you noticed that it’s little men and really thin women who have a problem with even size 8 women? Think about that fact. Do small people gang up on normal body size folks in fashion land?

Talented short men can be tyrants. Consider Napoleon at about 5’6” and Hitler at 5’9”. The typical argument is that short men have ego problems, but many short men have ruled the world.

If they have insecurities, short men are good at working them out, often devising life strategies that more than overcome cultural preferences for tall males.

This topic of fashion and size 0 models first blew up in the Filippa Hamilton 2009 Photoshop debate. As the facts unfolded, we learned that Hamilton was too fat as a tall size 4 to model for Ralph.

To be fair, Ralph Lauren isn’t quoted as actually saying anything negative about larger women — just that Filippa Hamilton was no longer suitable as his muse. Karl Lagerfeld pulled no punches on the subject of larger women either, calling out the “fat mummies” who eat too many potato chips.

It was a tough couple of months for standard-weight BMI women. Hamilton’s body was no different from Cindy Crawford’s, Naomi Campbell and many of the great fashion models. She also sizzled with sexuality.

In this Renam Christofoletti photo feature, interestingly named “Just Being A Woman” , published in summer 2010, a commenter Ms Paige sounded the applause bell for models with bones and no breasts, saying:

Nothing wrong with bein skinny…better than fat! Having no boobs is better than big sloppy ones or rock solid fakes

Stop bein so judgement and grow up. You are all probably fat with saggy boobs or men with fat girlfriends! 

Fashion Role Models for Women

Lagerfeld said that women like me only want to look at “skinny models” for inspiration, which is just not true. Paige assumes the same. 

Challenging as it is to believe, I’m on record in today’s #2 story saying that I DO NOT want to look like the beautiful, gorgeous new Ralph Lauren model Ubah Hussan.

Her beauty is inspiring to many but not to me — although her courage and life ARE a great inspiration to me. Physically, I have ZERO desire to be that thin and used a fashion image of Isabelle Caro to make my point, in the article Ubah Hassan Does Look More Like Ralph Lauren’s Photoshopped Version of Filippa Hamilton.

I LIKE having muscle lust and a healthy, sensual body. I LIKE my physicality, and yes, it IS a form of power to me.

When I read about Isabelle Caro’s death, I remembered Julian Macdonald’s comments about ‘plus-size’ women like Crystal Renn, then a size 10-12 model who was leading the body image/body weight conversation.

Designer Julian Macdonald Says ‘No Plus-sizers Allowed’

The British designer and judge on “Britain’s Next Top Model”,  Julian Macdonald said there should be no plus-size models in the competition.  That means no Crystal Renns, even as she looked in the Chanel cruise show in St Tropez. 

Julian Macdonalds comments about ‘fat girls’ include size 4-6 US models. He was not talking about size 14 US models.  Any significant flesh attached to body fat on a woman’s body forces her out of the competition.

“This is a serious show. You can’t have a plus-size girl winning. It makes it a joke. It’s not fair on them. You’re setting them up for a fall. I know what would happen to them. They’re looked down upon.” 

Rising Asian Luxury Market

Many really small women, including the growing luxury market in Asia, loves fashion’s preference for very thin women. Supporting the economics of the fashion industry for one moment, reality is that the Asian luxury market will be much bigger dollar wise than America’s or Europe’s luxury market.

Let us be mindful that Asian women have a history of being bossed around every bit as seriously patriarchal as our own. Personally, I believe that Japanese men are among the most misogynistic in the world.

Standing Up for Sensual Women

As a women’s lifestyle and sexuality trends expert, I am unsettled by today’s sensual landscape in the fashion world. I couldn’t be more thrilled by the rising influence of Scandivavia in fashion, because I trust their relationships with women.

I’m confident that men like Tom Ford and Marc Jacobs will stand up for ‘real’ women of healthy body weight and BMIs that are considered medically healthy.  I believe these men honor ancient fertility goddesses.

Simultaneously, I see the rising power of men who want want women to look like boys. As a fashion philosopher, I know that we are entering a time of sensual fluidity. Bisexuality (which I endorse totally) is on the rise.

Men are dressing like women, which is fine in my mind, but I acknowledge that I tense up a bit on this issue.

My concern has nothing to do with men dressing up like women. I just have this deep-seeded fear that there is a strong contingent of the fashion industry who prefers that women lose our sexuality entirely and that we become a gender-neutral society with men in charge and women as muses.

I see this fashion preference as another way of neutralizing female power.

For thousands of years, men have sought to neutralize female sensuaity, and the post-Supermodels world of women with no breasts, hips or fat is the surrest sign that today’s world doesn’t celebrate the most-common feminine shape.

There have always been beautiful, sensual, tall, thin women with small breasts and no hips in fashion. But the Supermodels were all-woman in the archetypal sense, the female imagery carved on stone from the beginning of civilization.

I don’t want to lose her, and I’m tired of being politially incorrect for saying that she exists. Carl Jung argued strongly that there IS such a being as a female archetype. She is my identity, that goddess in India or Cleopatra in Egypt. And I apologize to all the really thin women with no breasts and hips for saying these words, but the female archetype does have breasts and hips.

Before women just merrily accept yet another redefinition of ‘self’ forced down our throats world’s men, I want us to understand what we are doing. Since when did breasts and hips become unfashionable?

I know, I Know. in France, the gamine shape is always celebrated, and god knows, I love France and French women.

Politically Correct Women Consumers

Still, I have convictions. When it comes to the views of designers like Julian Macdonald, just make a vow: never buy a handbag, a lipstick, a perfume, or a vibrator with his name on it. Never.

Nurturing is apparently not in his DNA, based on his comments. So do not buy any product with his name on it, if you don’t like his values. This is very simple, ladies. Just say “no thank you”.

When a celebrity wears Mr Macdonald’s clothes, nicely leave blog comments that you would prefer she didn’t wear his designs in the future, given Macdonald’s views on women’s health and killing animals for pleasure.

We women aren’t hamsters in the cage, as I keep saying. Nor are we hamsters in Karl Lagerfeld’s cage.Karl is a superb studier of female psychology. Let us probe his psyche in return.

Buy Tom Ford or Louis Vuitton, designed by Marc Jacobs who adores women of every size, even if he is gay —  if you don’t agree with Lagerfeld that the ideal woman has total mastery of her body, just like a top ballerina, who must be as thin as possible.

Ballerinas are known for being superby graceful and in command of themselves. The life of a ballerina is monastic. Karl Lagerfeld is on record telling Vice Magazine that he supports a desexualized monastic life, as the preferred one. It is a cerebral life of the mind, one that masters the body, emptiying it of sensual desire.

Tom Ford and Marc Jacobs aren’t trying to re-engineer the female body as a male one. Nor is Lanvin’s Alber Albaz. Nor did YSL. These designers celebrate confident women.

Personally, I believe Karl Lagerfeld prefers less confident women who need his life guidance. It’s a very different psychological relationship, and Karl’s is actually the more traditional and prevalent world view. This is why the Chanel Asian fashionistas, already very thin, are on diets to get their weight down to a Lagerfeld-approved BMI of about 15.

Woman to Woman Catfights

Now back to “Just Being A Woman”. While the photos are totally superficial and devoid of any emotion, they do remind us of women’s relationships with each other. Consider Carly Fiorina’s inexcusable catty comments about Barbara Boxer’s hair during the election. 

Who needs a tyrannical fashion designer to make us feel terrible about ourselves? Women do it to each other every day of the week.

The relationship of fashionista females with each other is drawn out quite vividly in these photos, and it rings true to me. 

Women mustn’t blame only men designers for their tyranny over women in terms of body image and beauty. Women must examine each other first.

In terms of real long-term damage on women’s psyches, the buck starts and stops with us — with a whole lot of help from the global morality police and fashion patriarchy.

Let’s forget the guys for awhile, and go one on one with each other.

Woman up, everyone! Crystal Renn and Filippa Hamilton triggered good conversation about body image. Let Isabelle Caro’s death be a reason for us to talk about why she found her body disgusting at age 12. Most anorexics — and Isabelle herself — say that anorexia is a battle for control of one’s body in a psychologically complex world where women control not much.

When will we stop giving that control over to men and assume it for ourselves? Or is this just the natural order of things in God’s world where men — short and tall — rule? Anne

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