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Sensuality Reads

‘Angels’ By Russell James Is 304 Pages Of Nude Artistry

Pubic Hair Is Back, Announces The New York Times

Dasha Zhukova’s BDSM Throne Bashing Is Well Deserved

jd Forte’s ‘The Up and Comers’ & A September 11 Women’s Rights Reflection

18 Vaginas & Plenty Of Talking Points On Women’s Bodies After Sydney University Newspaper Censored

Christina Hendricks Talks Flower Shops & Pencil Skirts By Max Abadian for Flare Magazine May 2013

Marilyn Monroe Photographer Bert Stern Looks To Kate Upton As Next Muse

Red Genitals Not Arousing In Recent Study, But Men Do Tip Red Shirt Waitresses Better

2013 Is A Year of Revelation and Artistic Rejuvenation for Anne

Sexual Politics & Fashion, 50 Shades of Grey Meets YVVY’s Nude Edition

For Sister Margaret Farley Responsible Pleasure Is Not a Sin

Believing in Birth Control Doesn’t Make Me Un-American | 2 Ps in a Pod by Anne

Wilhelm Reich & Sexual Healing Without Fashion Body Armor

Joe Wehner | Anne Enke Unplugged | ‘Talk to Me’ #1

Study | Charming Porsche-Driving Men are Peacocks Seeking Sex

Sensual Dames Love Stockings & Garter Belts from Secrets & Lace

Female Deception | Vagina or Vajayjay

Emmanuelle Alt & Nudity | Vill Vogue Paris Remain A Sensual Beacon?

Sexy Doublespeak | American Women & Sexual Honesty

Heidi Klum & Rankin Could Sell Magnum Chocolate Ice Cream

Selita Ebanks | Kanye West | ‘Runaway’ Full Video Embedded

Christina Hendricks Reveals Our Inner Lilith Woman

The Great Wall of Vagina | Learning to Love Our Genitalia

Body Talk | Owning Vulvas, Clits & G-Spots

Orgasmic Female Brain in ‘La Petite Mort’ | Images Nicola Vallotto

Reflections on Female Sexual Desire: Anais Nin, Marilyn Monroe & Isabelle Allende Join Forces with Anne

 

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Body Image | Self Esteem

Curvy | Size 0 Articles

Aerie Lingerie Launches ‘The Real You Is Sexy’ Campaign

Renoir’s ‘The Large Bathers’ 1887How Body Image Affects Women’s Health For Real

Doutzen Kroes Says She’s No Size 0 & Wears Her Curves Proudly

Gisele Bundchen & Johan Lindeberg Say Basta To ‘Flawless’ Women

Does Fashion Industry Promote Anorexia? So Models Eat Tissue Paper To Stay Thin?

Serena Williams Aces Body Confidence in Beach Shoot & Readers Agree

Cameron Russell Says Privilege & Insecurity Make Modeling A Bad Career Choice

Erotic Sensuality at its Best - Pt 1 from Vogue Russia

Erotic Sensuality from the Masters - Pt 2 from Bogue Russia

Erotic Sensuality by Master Photographers Pt 3 | Vogue Russia Fall 2012

Kate Upton @ Muse Magazine, Says Gisele Is Footballer’s Wife

What’s Wrong With Our Bodies Anyway? Plus Model Magazine Asks

Self Love Is Saying ‘No’ to Fashion Body Images You Hate

Tara, Candice & Robyn | Steven Meisel | Vogue Italia June 2011 | ‘Belle vere’

Franca Sozzani on Curvy Girls, Sensuality & More Body Types in Fashion

Ines de la Fressange | 53, French Chic & Divinely Delicious

Stella Tennant on Vogue Italia as Ethel Granger | Body Image Research Update

Just Say ‘No’ | Programming Your Brain’s RAS System to Hate Size 0 Fashion Ads

Lizzie Miller Body Image Model and Beauty Debate Update

Mikimoto Pearl Girls 1972 | Sensual, Beautiful with Clavicle Fat

If the Supermodels Are Now ‘Fat’, It’s Time To Reprogram Our Fashion Brains

Cindy Crawford | 90’s Size 6 Supermodels Would Be Plus-Size Today

More Anorexia in Kids | Are Girls Afraid of Getting Curves?

Codie Young, Chadwick Tyler & Topshop Join Size 0 Model Debate

Pirelli Defines Sensuaity & Fashion Bodies | Arthur Elgort | Karl Lagerfeld

Anorexia in Thirds | 1/3 Die, 1/3 Relapse, 1/3 Recover

‘Black Swan’ | George Balanchine | Battling BMI Beauty in Ballet

‘Just Being a Woman’ | Isabelle Caro Sought Control of Her Body

Every Woman Should Own a Copy of “Uncovered” & Watch Meredith Viera’s NBC “Today Show” Interview with Jordan Matter

New Day Beauty: The Style Individual Is Running the Show

For a Long, healthy Life, Embrace an Hourglass Figure

NieNie’s Stephanie Nielson Faces ‘Flawless’ Beauty Head-on

Diet & Health

Is Marc Jacobs Defying Obesity Science Promoting Diet Coke?

5 Anti-Aging Reasons To Smile Your Way to Good Health & Lower Stress

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Health | The Narcissistic Personality | Marriage, Divorce & Obesity

How to Spot a Narcissist  Psychology Today

September’s cover issue of Psychology Today is devoted to better understanding narcissists. We have a complex relationship with this psychology type because they are charming and tend to dominate 21st century public culture.

A narcissist thrives on controlling behavior that captivates the general public and close social networks because many narcissists exude: attractiveness, competence, interpersonal warmth and humor. Their personalities suggest that they should like other people more — but this is a key difference between the narcissist, who is me-centered, and the extrovert.

Further complicating our dealings with the narcissist is the reality that sincere extroverts share many other characteristics of the narcissist: an endearing interpersonal style; self-assured body movements, friendly facial expressions and plenty of that intoxicating charm.

Leadership and narcissism go hand in hand.

Many extroverted people — especially women it seems to us —- are shot down and locked out of the positive impressions index because they are confused with narcissists. American women in particular, are dethroned for not exhibiting humble behavior, as an extension of their charm.

This read weaves together narcissism, the more intentionally exploitative behavior that is Machiavellianism, and dark, often deadly psychopathy as a distinct ‘dark triad’, with narcissism defined the gentlest star, being the one linked to charm, popularity and large social networks.

Both male and female narcissists are known as sexual provocateurs.

Promiscuity is a key behavioral ingredient also, because narcissists are always searching for a better deal. Psychologists Joshua Foster at the University of South Alabama and W. Keith Campbell of the University of Georgia found that when narcissists think their partner is committed, they are even more willing to cheat, presumably because they feel that they are more likely to get away with it. And narcissists get a rush out of convincing partners to do things or engage in sexual acts that they would normally eschew.

In the endless lineup of men (and presumably an occasional femme but we have no list) in power who cheat in dangerous ways on their wives, sexual control is seen clinically as a key ingredient of narcissism.

Is Dominique Strauss-Kahn a Narcissist?

In the aftermath of charges being dropped against Dominique Strauss-Kahn in a Manhattan courtroom yesterday, It’s fair to wonder if DSK is an example of a full-fledged narcissist. Is France’s ‘Great Seducer’ less charming now then when the entire legal case began?

If it occurs to you that you are a full-fledged, to-the-death narcissist, there is an online test — the Narcissistic Personality Inventory (NPI), that you can take. It’s a quick 40 questions, on which Anne scored 15, making her average 12-15. Celebrities score closer to 18 and narcissists often score over 20.

Six of Anne’s total points came in authority, as her strongest trait on this index. She scored zeroes on vanity and entitlement.

For further insights on how to understand the people who may be marcissists, Psychology Today gives us tips for spotting a narcisssist and also how to deal with being in love with a narcissist

Health News

Soybeans & Nuts Lower LDL Cholesterol

Certain foods may be the best medicine for lowering ‘bad’ cholesterol LATimes

New research suggests that a diet without foods high in saturated fat may not control bad cholesterol as effectively, as adding soybeans and nuts to our diets. The two food groups were so effective that among study participants, levels of LDL dropped in many cases to half that of patients who take statins sold as Lipitor, Crestor or Zocor. An individuals risk of fatal heart attack or stroke could also drop by 20%, although these results wre not confirmed in the study

In general, plant sterols, which can be added to foods or taken as a dietary supplement, were highly effective in reducing levels of LDL, the ‘bad’ cholesterol.

Maternal Inheritance

Stress Can Affect Future Offspring Science Daily

In a study conducted only on rats, researchers determined that pregnant, stressed rats in the early state of pregnancy inherit the effects of that stress to their offspring. In most obvious effects of the stress were expressed in behavior impairments but also in characteristics of resilience.

The study also demonstrated that nurturing intervention can mitigate some of the negative impacts of inherited stress effects which often raise cortisol levels even in your children.

Amazon Reads

Jane Fonda’s Prime Time #184

(via Amazon) In this inspiring and candid book, Jane Fonda, #1 bestselling author, actress, and workout pioneer, gives us a blueprint for living well and for making the most of life, especially the second half of it. Covering sex, love, food, fitness, self-understanding, spiritual and social growth, and your brain. In Prime Time, she offers a vision for successful living and maturing.

Highlighting new research and stories from her own life and from the lives of others, Jane Fonda explores how the critical years from 45 and 50, and especially from 60 and beyond, can be times when we truly become the energetic, loving, fulfilled people we were meant to be. Covering the 11 key ingredients for vital living, Fonda invites you to consider with her how to live a more insightful, healthy, and fully integrated life, a life lived more profoundly in touch with ourselves, our bodies, minds, and spirits, and with our talents, friends, and communities.

Jane Fonda’s Staircase Metaphor

The Merits of Going Through Life Thinking You’re a Firefly AOC Anne’s Sensually Yours Blog

Jane Fonda’s use of the staircase resonates deeply with Anne. One of her most important and vivid dreams of self-realization saw her climbing an imaginary crystal staircase into the ceiling — and beyond — of the Franklin Park Conservatory in Columbus, Ohio.

Simply stated, Anne defied the laws of gravity in her dream and saw this vision as her triumph over the fears and personal obstacles she put in the way of her own self -evelopment.

Marriage, Divorce & Weight Gain

Men vs. Women: Who Gains More Weight After Marriage and Divorce? TIME

Marriage and divorce don’t affect gender-based obesity trends in the same way.

It’s true that married men and women tend to gain weight compared to single, unmarried counterparts. Women are likely to gain more weight than men.

In divorce, the opposite effect occurs. Two years after a divorce, separated partners tended to be heavier compared with couples who remained married, but this time men posted larger weight gains than women.

Stay at Home Moms & Depression

Stay-at-home moms have the hardest job LA Times

The title is somewhat misleading, because it’s written within the context of trends in depression, not who has the physically more demanding job.

A new study has reaffirmed that women who stay at home raising children are more likely than working moms to have symptoms of depression. The findings on stay-at-home mothers support other research that shows working outside the home is good for a woman’s mental health.

It’s believed that many stay-at-home moms may have higher levels of depression because they want to be employed but find the cost of childcare too high to make a job worthwhile. Alternatively their faith, political views or husband may insist that the best place of a woman is at home, not working, and especially with children.

In the same survey, researchers determined that supermoms had more difficulty fighting depressions than women who were more realistic about the challenges of work/life balance. Most lifely, perfection and flawless weren’t typical words in the healthier women’s vocabularies.

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