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Vaginal Orgasms Aren't a Passive Female Experience

Orgasms are one of life’s greatest pleasures, bringing a host of physical and psychological health benefits.  Increasingly, many men (and women) truly want to understand how to create superb orgasms with their female partners.

Yes, there’s a lot written out there about the difficulty of having vaginals orgasms … that the real sendoff is with the clitoris. Scientifically, this is true, but I am one of those women who enjoys vaginal orgasms with a loving partner. No matter how it looks in a porn shoot … with your studmuffin just thrusting away … reality is, that he must thrust just so … and you might need to help him.

Vaginal orgasms are not a passive female experience, where he (or she) does all the work, and your body just takes off like a rocket ship. In fact, the buildup may take a while, as the woman works herself into a physical frenzy, looking for the right spot. This intense form of foreplay can put a lot of sensual stress on the man, who is ready to explode on a dime.

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