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<p>I share a partial series of the most incredible fashion model images, released as the<a href="http://models.com/oftheminute/?p=38874" target="_blank"> IMG show package </a>on Models.com. The images are the ultimate in creativity and artistic exquisiteness, a really fine wine for the fashion industry.</p>
<p>Behind the curve in writing about these images, the timing is actually perfect. Regiular readers &#8212; and definitely my growing list of photographer friends &#8212; know that these images reflect all my writing topics &#8216;from fashion to flogging&#8217;.</p>
<p><strong>Anne&#8217;s Writers Block</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been a bit stuck in my writing with <strong>Bro. Dennis i</strong>n our <a href="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/body-politics/category/2ps-in-a-pod" target="_blank">2 Ps in a Pod blog.</a> He is the profound one, and I profane. Our writing opens up many old wounds on the topic of women and religion, although my honesty is having huge impact according to Bro. Dennis. He lost board members over his association with me, women who objected to not only my words, but the limited nudity on<strong> AOC.</strong></p>
<p>It&#8217;s been a tough couple of weeks politically in America. I am now officially a totalitarian feminist in the aftermath of the <a href="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/new/tag/planned-parenthood" target="_blank">Komen Breast Cancer foundation/Planned Parenthood,</a> according to FOX News. Social conservatives think we second wave feminists should just lie down and play dead &#8212; until we are.</p>
<p>Then the noise will stop because the good girls are now all in line, thanks to ardent social conservatives and &#8216;Sex and the City&#8217; lap doggies.</p>
<p>It wasn&#8217;t until this morning that my writer&#8217;s block was broken. It was <strong>Kristen McMenamy&#8217;s Tim Walker </strong>editorial &#8216;<a href="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/style-photos/2012/2/8/kristen-mcmenamy-tim-walker-love-magazine-7-ss-2012-the-orig.html" target="_blank">The Origin of Monsters&#8217; for LOVE magazine #7</a> that sent me into an emotional tailspin and a highly emotional email to Bro. Dennis. I will publish it.</p>
<p>Better yet &#8212; on top of an incessant stream of supportive emails that I&#8217;m receiving from photographers and artists saying &#8220;don&#8217;t stop, this is incredible&#8221; &#8212; <a href="http://fashionista.com/2012/02/models-have-rights-too-learn-why-coco-rocha-crystal-renn-doutzen-kroes-and-more-are-lending-their-support-to-the-model-alliance/" target="_blank">I read in Fashionista </a>this morning that Coco Rocha, Crystal Renn and more models had a powwow in Manhattan last night to launch the<strong> Model Alliance, </strong>a nonprofit organization founded by <strong>Sara Ziff </strong>dedicated to &#8220;helping models in the American fashion industry organize for safe, fair and healthy standards in their workplace.&#8221;</p>
<p>Finally some girls with spunk. Back to the<strong> IMG Show Package.</strong> Their willingness to go this route, making such a bold, artistic, controversial visual statement about being female is breathtaking. Whoever conceived this project, I love you, love you, love you. Thank you sooooo much.<strong> Anne </strong>(PS. There is no info about the project, just images, on the <a href="http://imgmodelsblog.com/imgs-fw2012-show-package/" target="_blank">IMG Models website</a>.</p>
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]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2012/1/29/are-stay-at-home-moms-majority-of-cheaters-on-ashley-madison.html"><rss:title>Are Stay-At-Home Moms Majority of Cheaters On Ashley Madison?</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2012/1/29/are-stay-at-home-moms-majority-of-cheaters-on-ashley-madison.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator><dc:date>2012-01-29T14:21:39Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Ashley Madison Female Sexuality Internet Internet dating Relationships Religion and Women Sex &amp; Culture adultery marriage marriage trends monogamy religion in America sexuality research social conservatives women and religion</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="ssNonEditable full-image-block"><span><img src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/year/2012/Bela-Javier-20120111-03.jpg" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p><strong><span>Woman | <span>Malgosia</span> Bela | <span>Javier</span> <span>Vallhonrat</span> | Vogue UK April 2009 | &#8216;In A Very Private Affair &#8217; </span></strong></p>
<p>We&#8217;ve seen a few fashion editorials lately, in which the woman is an adulteress and most often in the company of a non Wall-Street-striving kind of guy. Translated, she&#8217;s hot for the guy who isn&#8217;t the sum of his possessions and has time for hot sex.</p>
<p>I stopped by <a href="http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=adulteress" target="_blank"><span><span>UrbanDictionary</span>.com</span></a> just now for their take on the word &#8216;adulteress&#8217;. Admitting up front that the word doesn&#8217;t get a lot of action, the definitions amused me. They include:</p>
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<p>- Known to men as the best sex they have had since high school.</p>
<p>- A woman with low morals and high sex drive. In other words,the female version of a man.</p>
<p><span>- A word you definitely don&#8217;t want to hear from your wife&#8217;s attorney in divorce court. (The only place it doesn&#8217;t sound sexy)</span></p>
<p>- Perhaps one of the few times where a woman is seeking sex for a purely  physical need (like men) rather than for an emotional or spiritual  connection.</p>
<p>- Who an adulterer should be married to. She would then be known as a swinger.</p>
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<p>A recent article in <strong>Women&#8217;s Health Magazine</strong> got more scientific about studying <a href="http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-relationships/woman-who-cheat" target="_blank">The New Adulteress</a>, reporting this month that according to a recent online poll, 79 percent of respondents said that having an affair with a &#8220;taken man&#8221; was never acceptable but 46 percent admitted doing it.</p>
<p><strong>Nearly Half of Women in Women&#8217;s Health Poll Admit to an Affair</strong></p>
<p><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 300px;" src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/226636-ashleymadison-com.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1327850318264" alt="" /></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 300px;"><span>Noel <span>Biderman</span> has set up an online dating agency for married people called <span>ashleymadison</span>.com. Picture: Justin Lloyd </span></span></span><span>When asked it the presumably mostly women respondents would rather be a mistress or a deceived wife, more than 62 percent opted for &#8216;mistress&#8217;.&nbsp; The majority of women in the <span>WH</span> poll said that they weren&#8217;t trying to break up a marriage. In fact, knowing the man was married and therefore not looking for a long term relationship with her was an advantage.</span></p>
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<p><span>The chance to play savior is a common reason women end up in bed with  men who are already taken, says Mira <span>Kirshenbaum</span>, a couples therapist  and the author of </span><em>When Good People Have Affairs: Inside the Hearts and Minds of People in Two Relationships.</em> &#8220;Sometimes a woman decides that a guy is with a partner who squashes  his potential, and she hopes to help liberate him.&#8221; From that  perspective, an affair can be viewed as more a noble cause than a moral  transgression.</p>
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<p><strong>Mate Poaching As Evolutionary Biology</strong></p>
<p>Evolutionary psychologist David P. Schmitt says that &#8216;mate poaching&#8217; occurs in almost every society on earth; launching an  estimated 10 to 15 percent of all romantic relationships, according to his  survey of nearly 17,000 people worldwide.</p>
<p>David M Buss, PhD, also an evolutionary psychologist agrees, saying that high-quality men are often in scarce supply, so women compete for the best of the lot.</p>
<p>I am always suspect of the scientific assumptions employed by male evolutionary psychologists because we know that when the subject is sex in the animal kingdom, females are in charge and males compete for her favor. It seems logical to assume that once women became the property of men, competing for the best owner made sense.</p>
<p><span>In today&#8217;s world where women of professional status frequently out-earn men, the evolutionary psychology assumptions may be challenged by the reality that society&#8217;s expectations of marriage is changing. When half of all marriages end in divorce, branding women as slut girls for having an affair rings a false tune.</span></p>
<p><span>Note that educated, professional marriages enjoy lower divorce rates that poor people&#8217;s marriages, often among social conservatives who are more likely to marry than cohabit. Power couple affairs have gone on for centuries among members of the aristocracy and in modern-day Europe. It seems that the trend has also come to America.</span></p>
<p><strong>Men Don&#8217;t Marry Mistresses</strong></p>
<p>Researchers quoted in the Women&#8217;s Health article report that only a small minority of men marry their mistresses.</p>
<p><span>One survey, of 4,126 male business executives, found that only 3 percent  of those who left their wives pursued a serious relationship with their  mistresses. The <span>WH</span> poll agrees, saying that 86 percent of respondents who&#8217;d cheated confirmed that the affair didn&#8217;t result in a long-term relationship with the man. That&#8217;s good  news for girls who just <span>wanna</span> have fun, but not for the female seeking a partner or husband.</span></p>
<p><strong>Are Stay-At-Home Moms Majority of Women on Ashley Madison?</strong></p>
<p><span>Reviewing other research about women who are adulteresses, married people&#8217;s affair website Ashley Madison reported in 2010 that of the 31,427 women who signed up the day after Mother&#8217;s Day, </span><a href="http://www.momlogic.com/2010/05/update_31427_women_signed_up_for_ashley_madison_the_day_after_mothers_day.php" target="_blank">67 pecent identified </a>themselves as stay-at-home moms. Take that, social conservatives!!</p>
<p>Good Morning America talked about life on Ashley Madison in 2010.</p>
<p><strong><span><span>GMA</span> on Ashley Madison</span></strong></p>
<p><iframe width="500" height="369" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/RXXWismNYT4?rel=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>
<p><strong>Care2</strong> wrote <a href="http://www.care2.com/greenliving/the-ashley-madison-moment.html" target="_blank">The Ashley Madison Moment</a><span> this week, reporting that Internet cheating is growing at an estimated 79 percent per year.Ashley Madison reports that women are 30 percent of US <span>signups</span>. Just launched in Australia, where prostitution is legal and women have more rights than in America, Ashley <span>Madison&#8217;s</span> 500,000 <span>signups</span> are 40 percent women, </span><a href="http://www.perthnow.com.au/business/business-old/affairs-website-ashleymadisoncom-expanding-in-australia-due-to-high-demand/story-e6frg2t3-1226245694782" target="_blank">reports </a><strong>Perth Now. </strong></p>
<p><span>Canadian Noel <span>Biderman</span> is setting up Ashley <span>Madison&#8217;s</span> global headquarters in Sydney, Australia this year, creating 250 jobs to service its 11 million members in 15 countries. About the company&#8217;s unusual success in Australia recruiting women, <span>Biderman</span> says:</span></p>
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<p><span>&#8220;Australian women are not <span>na&iuml;ve</span>. They know that men have legal brothels  as an outlet. I believe they are saying, &#8216;right guys, you&#8217;ve had your  fun. Now we&#8217;re going to have ours&rsquo;.&#8221;</span></p>
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<p><span>Most recently, Ashley Madison was in the news for its endorsement of Newt <span>Gingrich</span> for President. In response to the three-time-married Republican, who did marry his mistress of six years, and then took a &#8216;no-adultery pledge&#8217;, Ashley <span>Madison&#8217;s</span> <span>Biderman</span> installed a billboard in Bucks Country, Pa.</span></p>
<p>For all their finger wagging, we know without a doubt that social conservatives buy more pornography.</p>
]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2012/1/25/carine-roitfeld-sticks-it-to-candice-swanepoel-joan-smalls-f.html"><rss:title>Carine Roitfeld Sticks It To Candice Swanepoel &amp; Joan Smalls for V Mag #74</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2012/1/25/carine-roitfeld-sticks-it-to-candice-swanepoel-joan-smalls-f.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator><dc:date>2012-01-25T12:39:57Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Candice Swanepoel Carine Roitfeld Emmanuelle Alt Fashion Joan Smalls Patrick Demarchelier Saskia de Brauw Sex &amp; Culture Sui He V Magazine Vogue Paris</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/carine-roitfeld-patrick-demarchelier-v-mag-1-25-1205.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1327495208369" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>I knew it! The minute I saw these <strong>Patrick Demarchelier </strong>images &#8212; especally these two of Joan and Candice &#8212; I knew they came from the mind of <strong>Carine Roitfeld.</strong></p>
<p>In three seconds, I went from why is Candice holding a pin cushion (couture, of course) to the pink rose in Candice&#8217;s love zone. No-no, I said. This is Carine Roitfeld making one of her classic irreverence statements, proving once again that she can communicate her womanly key points with clothes on. This is why I adore Carine!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s this subtle irreverence, the sly wit that&#8217;s now totally gone from Vogue Paris, wiped out with the sensuality. Carine makes a case for the suppression of female sexuality &#8212; the mutilation of female sexuality &#8212; with a proper flower and a pin cushion.</p>
<p>How great to see <strong>Candice Swanepoel, Daphne Groeneveld, Joan Smalls, Saskia de Brauw and Sui He </strong>in <strong>V Magazine #74</strong>, styled with sly wit and great taste by the irrepressible <strong>Carine Roitfeld.</strong></p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/carine-roitfeld-patrick-demarchelier-v-mag-1-25-1204.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1327495229639" alt="" /></span></span></p>
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]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2012/1/12/liz-marotti-new-york-city-artist-with-roaring-womanly-vision.html"><rss:title>Liz Marotti | New York City Artist with Roaring, Womanly Vision</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2012/1/12/liz-marotti-new-york-city-artist-with-roaring-womanly-vision.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator><dc:date>2012-01-12T15:57:53Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Art Female Sexuality Feminism Liz Marotti Natalia Paruz Women's Bodies monsieur le critic women artists</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 500px;" src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/Screen Shot 2012-01-14 at 2.08.37 PM.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1326569504188" alt="" /></span></span></p>
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<p>A few week&#8217;s ago <strong>Monsieur le critic</strong> &#8212; the one who says <a href="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2011/12/8/madly-in-love-julia-restoin-roitfelds-kiki-de-montparnasse-c.html" target="_blank">Julia Restoin-Roitfeld has no talent </a>and Mario Testino is a totally used up photographer &#8212;&nbsp; took us on a tour of his studio. Silently we moved over his white walls and plain birch cabinets &#8212; if I remember correctly.</p>
<p>His digs offered no inspiration at all, doing nothing to portray him as a visionary painter or even good taste. Note: recycled, flea market furniture style is just fine but the design inspiration, style cupboard was barren.</p>
<p>His entire &#8220;come into my artistic world&#8221; video wasn&#8217;t fit for the most humble voyeur like me, a person lacking the professional talents and marketing insights of Monsiur le critic, whose resume is real hard to come by.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t go looking for trouble, but when smarty pants people like Monsieur rip other talented people apart, I expect pure perfection from him. When it was so lacking, I said &#8220;seriously, Anne, let it go.&#8221; Truly I forgot about his insipid little apartment tour until Wednesday night, when<a href="http://www.facebook.com/LizMarottiArt" target="_blank"> New York City painter Liz Marotti </a>posted in <strong>Facebook&#8217;s International Women Artists&#8217; Salon</strong>, of which I am a member.</p>
<p>&#8220;Wow,&#8221; I said after watching Liz&#8217;s video. Now this woman takes us &#8212; for better or for worse; the good, the bad and the ugly &#8212; into her world. I have a real sense of <strong>Liz Marotti </strong>and her infectious spirit.</p>
<p>Monsier le critic writes that he has no idea of what he is trying to express and Liz Marotti can&#8217;t stop talking, trying to help us understand her vision. Is this a classic difference between he and she?</p>
<p>I have no idea. All I know is that <strong>Liz Marotti</strong> has moxie and is truly earnest about her art. She knows how to hustle with authenticity, and that&#8217;s the biggest tribute I can pay a woman, because we always want to fit in and not rock the boat. Liz Marotti says &#8220;fear not, ladies.&#8221;</p>
<p>Helen Reddy would like Liz Marotti&#8217;s &#8216;I am woman; hear me roar&#8221; approach to expressing her love of painting; and so do I. You can view more of <strong>Liz Marotti&#8217;s</strong><a href="http://purrrmarketinggroup.com/Clients/LizMarottiEnterprises/" target="_blank"> paintings here from </a>PURRR Marketing Group. <strong>Anne</strong></p>
<p><strong>Liz Marotti </strong><a href="http://www.facebook.com/LizMarottiArt" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p>
<p>It&#8217;s been driving me crazy that Liz reminds me of someone, and I just remembered a very special person: <a href="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/green/2008/7/19/natalia-paruz-peace-loving-saw-lady.html" target="_blank">Natalia Paruz: Peace Loving &#8216;Saw Lady&#8217;. </a></p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 500px;" src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/Screen Shot 2012-01-14 at 2.06.37 PM.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1326569766306" alt="" /></span></span><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 500px;" src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/Screen Shot 2012-01-14 at 2.09.02 PM.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1326569796159" alt="" /></span></span>&nbsp;</p>
]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2012/1/5/witch-burning-steilneset-memorial-by-peter-zumthor-louise-bo.html"><rss:title>Witch-Burning Steilneset Memorial by Peter Zumthor &amp; Louise Bourgeois</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2012/1/5/witch-burning-steilneset-memorial-by-peter-zumthor-louise-bo.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator><dc:date>2012-01-05T18:04:30Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Art Louise Bourgeoise Peter Zumthor Religion and Women Steilneset Memorial goddess witches</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/year/2012/Steilneset-Bourgeois-2012010401.jpg" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p><em>Images by <a href="http://www.meredithphoto.com/" target="_blank">Andrew Meredith</a></em></p>
<p>Swiss architect <strong>Peter Zumthor </strong>and the late French-born artist <strong>Louise Bourgeoise</strong> collaborated in the hauntingly beautiful and poetic <strong>Steilneset Memorial</strong> in Vard&oslash;, Norway, an arresting memorial to 91 people, 77 women and 14 men, who were burned at the stake here in the 17th century for the crime of witchcraft.</p>
<p>Sturla J. Stalsett, general secretary of the Vard&oslash; Church City Mission,  pointed out during the opening ceremonies presided over by Her Majesty Queen Sonja of Norway, that the memorial is meant to  remind us of the ongoing danger of collectively creating scapegoats. If  historical circumstances seem peculiar now, the intent behind the work  addresses larger moral claims.</p>
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<p>I highlight descriptions of the memorial,<a href="http://archrecord.construction.com/features/2011/1108-Steilneset-Memorial/Steilneset-Memorial.asp" target="_blank"> drafted for </a><strong>Architectural Record</strong>:</p>
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<p>Visitors enter the memorial on the north by a gangplank placed  perpendicularly to the elevated Zumthor structure, a 410-foot-long  building within which a tensile structure of polytetrafluoroethylene  (PTFE)-coated fiberglass fabric is suspended on cables. Once inside, the  visitors proceed along a 328-foot wood-plank catwalk about 5 feet wide.  As they thread their way through the dark cocoon of the interior,  visitors pass 91 windows, each dimly lit by an exposed-filament bulb.  Ropelike cords from the lamps form scalloped borders at the edges of the  undulating ceiling. The feeling is like being in the stomach of some  prehistoric creature, half-fish, half-reptile &mdash; except there is a  glimmer of light.</p>
<p>Owing to the high winds on the site, the glass walls stop short of the  ceiling and floor and slide past each other to allow gaps for wind  drafts. In the middle of the space is Bourgeois&#8217;s piece, an aluminum  chair with gas flames shooting out of the seat. In this rather literal  evocation, the burning chair is reflected in seven oval mirrors placed  on metal columns in a ring around the fiery seat, like judges circling  the condemned. If you think you&#8217;ll be too warm standing near the burning  chair, don&#8217;t worry. In this blustery place, temperatures rarely rise  above 51 degrees Fahrenheit.</p>
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<p>In the 16th and 17th centuries, witch hunts took place across Europe and in the American colonies. Researchers believe that between 40,000 and 100,000 people were killed, mostly women. It&#8217;s not easy to put these events behind us, when key supporters of more than one 2012 Republican presidential candidates are aligned with religious forces who say that Oprah is a forerunner to the anti-Christ.</p>
]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2012/1/1/2012-sensual-joy-and-spiritual-blessings-to-all-humanitarian.html"><rss:title>2012 Sensual Joy and Spiritual Blessings To All Humanitarians</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2012/1/1/2012-sensual-joy-and-spiritual-blessings-to-all-humanitarian.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator><dc:date>2012-01-01T16:07:17Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Female Sexuality Feminism Human Sexuality Religion and Women Smart Sensuality definition of sensuality nationalism patriarchy religious wars self-compassion self-identity self-love sensuality female sensuality spirituality spirituality in nature women and religion</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 500px;" src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/1000-Happy New Year-b-2012.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1325434552522" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>My life has always attracted unexpected bedfellows, but this year has brought together an unusual assemblage of people with shared goals and vision. Each of them reinforces our message of positive sensuality employed with humanitarian purpose, making <strong>Anne of Carversville</strong> a magnet for <strong>Smart Sensuality</strong> people.</p>
<p>Each of us is touched by the profundity of life and also its profane aspect. One person&#8217;s profanity is another&#8217;s beauty and right course of action. Caught in this web of real life, we judge each other daily.</p>
<p>In profound ways, these new people in my life nourish me, empowering the goal of liberating women in particular, but men, too, from the guilt trip and &#8216;shame on you&#8217; badge of dishonor that hangs around our necks &#8212; simply because we find pleasure in smelling roses, the beauty of mountains and the seductive gloriousness of nature.</p>
<p>If a tea-leaves reader would have told me last Christmas that:</p>
<p>1) I would be writing a new <strong>2Ps in a Pod</strong> <a href="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/body-politics/category/2ps-in-a-pod" target="_blank">blog with a Christian Carmelite</a> <strong>Brother Dennis</strong>;</p>
<p>2) have a dearest friend body psychotherapist <strong>Ellen Gayda</strong>, <a href="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/articles-about-women/ellen-gayda.html" target="_blank">who lays her hands not only on my body</a> but also my spirit;</p>
<p>3) be writing about <strong>AOC muse</strong> and personal <strong>Smart Sensuality</strong> idol Angelina Jolie&#8217;s new movie &#8216;The Land of Blood and Honey&#8217; &#8212; which I will see this week &#8212;while having a lightbulb moment that</p>
<p>4) my passion for <strong>Morfium Couture</strong> brand is created by <strong>Dusan Jaukovic and Jelena Malesevic</strong> &#8212; who live in Jolie&#8217;s land of honey in Belgrade &#8212; only to find out that</p>
<p>5) the poem I will use in this post came from <strong>Anjeza Duro</strong>, my Facebook friend in Toronto but originally&nbsp; Albania, a country whose honey fate became terribly intertwined with events in Bosnia and later on in Kosovo &#8230;</p>
<p>&nbsp;&#8230; well, I would have said &#8216;no way, not even with me&#8217; because the complexity of the connections runs full circle, not stopping here.</p>
<p>I asked permission from Dusan and Jelena to use their <strong>Phoenix Rising</strong>, female-centric values <strong>Morfium </strong>images on Bro. Dennis&#8217; and my 2Ps in a Pod blog (with religious subjects, I <strong>always ask permission)</strong>, only to have the good brother be spellbound by their beauty and explain his very high-level contacts who might help our friends move Morfium out of Belgrade, which is their goal.</p>
<p>My own willingness to nurture this magnificently relevant, women&#8217;s wisdom Morfium brand was expressed earlier in the fall. Now we have the possibility of divine intervention on a grand scale on Morfium&#8217;s behalf. Stay tuned.</p>
<p><strong>Claiming Personal Power</strong></p>
<p>When I wrote that I wanted nothing more to do with the Catholic Church on my own life journey to self love, I couldn&#8217;t imagine being in his orbit today. With my principles intact, I will gladly try to help him with his Easeamine anti-aging skin care initiative.</p>
<p><strong>Ellen Gayda</strong> weighed in on Friday, saying &#8220;I think we need to rectify through ritual the priest denying you communion when you were 15.&#8221; My gym injury healer has been nurturing my spirit, as well as fixing my body, since she met me in July.</p>
<p>Ellen persists in coaxing me to take back my power in ritual from those who stole it or accepted it under false pretenses in earlier stages of my life. Power returned and recycled for use on my terms and those of my colleagues and friends will be spent for humanity this time. Ellen believes we must physically and spiritually take back our power from those who have wronged us badly, in private healing ceremonies.</p>
<p>Most of us suffer in life, and I&#8217;m actually one of those people who believes that suffering is necessary for personal growth and to make us attuned to the unjust situations of others. It&#8217;s correct to say that the agony of humanity has haunted me since I was a little girl.</p>
<p>There is no justifiable explanation or excuse for the extreme suffering waged in the name of God and nationalism worldwide.</p>
<p>Ironically, writing last Christmas Day 2010, I shared my dream of <a href="../../sensuality/mission-2011-redefine-sensuality-as-life-affirming-respectab.html" target="_blank">waking up with a scream, shouting</a> with rage over the wars of men and their devastating impact on women,  children and our planet. Today, it&#8217;s my friend <strong>Anjeza Duro&#8217;s </strong>words that resonate so profoundly this first day of 2012.&nbsp;</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 500px;" src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/Holiday-Message-1-1-12.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1325444860107" alt="" /></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 500px;">Clockwise upper left: Ellen Gayda; Anjeza Duro; Brother Dennis-Anthony; Anjelina Jolie. Center: Morfium Couture</span></span>&#8220;The Post-human Condition&#8221;</p>
]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2011/12/30/unpublished-herb-ritts-photos-capture-essence-of-sexual-revo.html"><rss:title>Unpublished Herb Ritts Photos Capture Essence of Sexual Revolution</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2011/12/30/unpublished-herb-ritts-photos-capture-essence-of-sexual-revo.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-12-30T11:51:46Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Cindy Crawford Fashion Female Sexuality Feminism Gender Herb Ritts Human Sexuality Naomi Campbell Sex &amp; Culture Women's Bodies fashion misogyny female sensuality misogyny patriarchy</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 500px;" src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/Screen Shot 2011-12-30 at 6.48.41 AM.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1325246001559" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p><strong>Note | Nudity</strong> <strong>NOWNESS </strong>shares a set of breathtaking <strong>Herb Ritts</strong> images, ones so clearly full of relevant meaning and symbolism that I can just stop writing about the evolution of female bodies in the last two decades. Seven images that celebrate Herb Ritts&#8217; images at an upcoming exhibition at the Getty Museum in Los Angeles, as well as a new book, sum up 40,000 words.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Amazonian <strong>Cindy Crawford</strong> and Olympian <strong>Naomi Campbell</strong> feature alongside <strong>Johnny Depp, David Bowie and Karl Lagerfeld</strong> explain without words what Herb Ritts intentionally or subconsciously sought to communicate about men, women, sexuality and power in the years after the sexual revolution.</p>
<p>Ernest Becker&#8217;s &#8216;The Denial of Death&#8217;; the unleashing of female control over our own reproduction; the accumulation of feminine power and sensual, natural principles; female mythology pre-monotheism &#8212; the key psychological elements in all their glory and threatening metaphors stare at us in these images. Whew!</p>
<p>What a followup to the brain dump we did last night with <a href="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/style-photos/2011/12/29/haley-by-remi-rebillard-in-la-dolce-vita-the-creatives.html" target="_blank">Remi Rebillard&#8217;s newest editorial La Dolce Vita!! </a>Comments on <strong>NOWNESS</strong> <a href="http://www.nowness.com/day/2011/12/30/1764/herb-ritts-classical-eye" target="_blank">from industry heavy weights.</a> Personally, I&#8217;ve had a visual jolt heavier than drinking five cups of espresso in five minutes.</p>
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]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2011/12/14/andrej-pejics-hema-mega-push-up-bra-for-flat-chested-women.html"><rss:title>Andrej Pejic's Hema Mega Push-Up Bra for Flat-chested Women</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2011/12/14/andrej-pejics-hema-mega-push-up-bra-for-flat-chested-women.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-12-14T12:17:48Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Andrej Pejic Andrej Pejic in lingerie Fashion Gender Hema Mega Pusy-Up Bra Sex &amp; Culture Women's Bodies lingerie</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 500px;" src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/andrej-pejic-lingerie-12-13-11-a.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1323865089753" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>It&#8217;s an Andrej Pejic morning &#8212; one I have mixed feelings about &#8212; because I know that when we have a &#8216;run&#8217; on Andrej, 60 days later I&#8217;ll have to &#8216;pay the piper&#8217; in terms of a decline in page views at AOC. It amazes me that the power of the Internet and people&#8217;s interest in Andrej Pejic is so strong.</p>
<p>If you are living under a fashion rock, Andrej Pejic scored his first lingerie ad in the Netherlands &#8212; a country notoriously calm and well-adjusted on these topics. The campaign is for Dutch chain store <strong>Hema&rsquo;s &ldquo;Mega Push-Up Bra,</strong>&rdquo;  which promises to make your breasts &ldquo;2 cups extra.&rdquo; For a flat-chested  model like Andrej who tends to pose in his femme side, this added  cleavage can be a godsend. Pejic&rsquo;s Sydney agent, Chadwick&rsquo;s Joseph  Tenni, told Frockwriter, &ldquo;It&rsquo;s  revolutionary. I&rsquo;ve never known a man to  do a womens&rsquo; lingerie campaign  before&rdquo;.</p>
<p>Andrej has offered to get a sex change operation for a chance to model for Victoria&#8217;s Secret. The offer may be making light of the entire transgender journey and psychological/cultural challenges, but we all know that Andrej is quick-witted.</p>
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<p>Our Andrej Pejic articles on fire this morning include:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/fp/2011/8/15/fashion-model-andrej-pejics-video-interview-a-star-is-born-a.html" target="_blank">Fashion Model Andrej Pejic&#8217;s Video Interview | A Star Is Born on Australia&#8217;s Pedestrian TV</a></p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/andrej-pejic-christos-katantzolas-10-10-11-07.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1323865734675" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/style-photos/sylvester-ulv-andrej-pejic-gabriel-gronvik-john-c-boudewijn.html" target="_blank">Sylvester Ulv, Andrej Pejic, Gabriel Gronvik, John C &amp; Boudewijn | Karim Sadli for Candy</a></p>
<p>All <a href="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/bp-photo-topics/model-andrej-pejic.html" target="_blank">Andrej Pejic editorials</a> at <strong>Anne of Carversville</strong> and <strong>Sensuality News</strong></p>
]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2011/12/10/mario-sorrentis-2012-pirelli-calendar-empowers-women.html"><rss:title>Mario Sorrenti's 2012 Pirelli Calendar Empowers Women</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2011/12/10/mario-sorrentis-2012-pirelli-calendar-empowers-women.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-12-10T19:48:36Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Fashion Feminism Human Sexuality Mario Sorrenti New Eroticism Pirelli calendar Pirelli calendar 2012 Sex &amp; Culture Smart Sensuality boys club female sensuality girls club</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/12/08/fashion/a-big-party-for-the-2012-pirelli-calendar.html" target="_blank"><img style="width: 500px;" src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/08zSCENE1-pirelli-12-10-11-jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1323542430903" alt="" /></a></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 500px;">A party for the 2012 Pirelli Calendar was held on Tuesday at the Armory. Yana Paskova for The New York Times</span></span>Men never cease to amaze me! Writing about the recent unveiling party for the <strong>2012 Pirelli Calendar at Manhattan&#8217;s Armory, Bob Morris</strong> &#8212; who should know better &#8212;<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/12/08/fashion/a-big-party-for-the-2012-pirelli-calendar.html" target="_blank"> wrote for</a> the <strong>New York Times Style</strong> section:</p>
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<p>IT&rsquo;S always important to know what you can&rsquo;t have, especially for the holidays.</p>
<p>This year, gentlemen, add the 2012 Pirelli Calendar of nude models to  your list. Since 1964, the Italian tire company has commissioned  photographers to create this lavish work of high-end soft porn. It goes  out to a list that likely doesn&rsquo;t include many Italian auto mechanics.</p>
<p>The Vatican, the sultan of Brunei and Buckingham Palace get one, according to Pirelli. The White House? Not yet.</p>
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<p>Doesn&#8217;t Morris know that the<strong> Pirelli Calendar</strong> is also beloved by the <strong>Girl&#8217;s Club</strong>, making it one of the few icons of global culture that men and women agree on?</p>
<p>Men can try to hoard the Pirelli Calendar, as if it&#8217;s stamped &#8216;No Women Allowed&#8217;, except for the awesome lineup of 12 women who make up this year&#8217;s Pirelli Calendar, finally shot by an Italian photographer Mario Sorrenti, who is long an AOC favorite.</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><a href="http://www.sensualitynews.com/new/2011/12/6/2012-pirelli-calendar-images-by-mario-sorrenti-nude-beauty-i.html"><img style="width: 500px;" src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/filter/Screen Shot 2011-12-10 at 1.57.52 PM.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1323543538287" alt="" /></a></span></span><a href="http://www.sensualitynews.com/new/2011/12/6/2012-pirelli-calendar-images-by-mario-sorrenti-nude-beauty-i.html" target="_blank">2012 Pirelli Calendar Images by Mario Sorrenti | Nude Beauty Italian Style</a> <strong>SN Sweet Dreams</strong></p>
<p>Reality is that women readers are all over the digital images of Sorrenti&#8217;s Pirelli women, and with high praise. Responding to our presentation of the <strong>Pirelli 2012 Calendar on Sensuality News,</strong> a devoted <strong>AOC </strong>friend wrote:</p>
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<p>Oh my God, Anne! The new Pirelli!!! I just saw some of the photos -  I&#8217;m  wondering what you think of them, because I&#8217;m stunned at the soft   sensuality and the staggering picturesque atmosphere&#8230;..</p>
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]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2011/12/8/madly-in-love-julia-restoin-roitfelds-kiki-de-montparnasse-c.html"><rss:title>Madly in Love | Julia Restoin Roitfeld's Kiki de Montparnasse Collection</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.anneofcarversville.com/sensuality/2011/12/8/madly-in-love-julia-restoin-roitfelds-kiki-de-montparnasse-c.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-12-08T19:48:04Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Ads | Business Carine Roitfeld Fashion Indira Cesarine Julia Restoin Roitfeld Kiki de Montparnasse Media bloggers female sensuality monsieur le critic</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/julia-roitfeld-kiki-di-montparnasse-09.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1323373719695" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>I&#8217;m loving these images of <strong>Julia Restoin Roitfeld&#8217;s</strong> new collaboration with <strong>Kiki di Montparnasse</strong> and was astonished to read this condemnation of Roitfeld the other day:</p>
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<p>One wonders how Julia Roitfeld truly came to design for Kiki de  Montparnasse, outside the PR fluff that&#8217;s sputtered out. More  importantly: what qualified her to do so? The only answer I can come up  with is that she&#8217;s the celebrity daughter of her mother; and we live in  the time when brands lust for the spotlight. But as the old saying of <em>like mother like daughter </em>goes, this little rabbit is not befitting to her mommy. Julia like her <em>quote un quote </em>artist  brother lack an artistic taste, vision, and talent. They might have  aspirations, but true talent is amiss in them. Example in point is  Julia&#8217;s approval, earlier this year, to release the film her boyfriend  shot, The Crush.  A film that should have never seen the light of day, and an act on her  part that speaks of her lack of understanding to the arts. The bigger  shame is designers like Kiki de Montparnasse who easily put aside their  core values. I&#8217;m not completely against celebrity designers, some prove  them self&#8217;s to have a point of view and talent, but in the general  scheme of things the majority do not. What is further annoying is the  type of questions journalists ask these wanabee&#8217;s, in interviews;  hoovering on the shallow, instead of digging deep to prove talent and  substance.</p>
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<p>&#8220;WTF!&#8221;, I said to myself. I know this guy&#8217;s Alexa.com rank is increasing by the day (lower is better) and the last 90 reflect a much worse trend for the total year &#8212; but this critique hurts even me! What is his problem! Better question: what are his own credentials to accuse others of having no talent?&#8221;</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 500px;" src="http://www.anneofcarversville.com/storage/Screen Shot 2011-12-08 at 2.35.22 PM.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1323374304184" alt="" /></span></span>As the former Fashion Director, Director of Product Development, and MMU bottom-line, merchant queen of Victoria&#8217;s Secret, I know that my own credentials pale by comparison to this guy&#8217;s &#8212; and I probably have no artistic talent either when compared to him of the very, very, very primitive paintings &#8212; but I think the collaboration between Julia Restoin-Roitfeld and Kiki di Montparnasse is well done.</p>
<p>I fail to see how <strong>Kiki de Montparnasse </strong>has put aside the brand&#8217;s design integrity, because this woman writer thinks the collection is totally Kiki and oh so French. It is perfect!</p>
<p>Question: has said masculine writer ever removed a pair of Kiki de Montparness fancy panties in his life? I doubt it but will not pursue this line of inquiry any further.</p>
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<p><strong>Madame Restoin Roitfeld</strong> needs no support from me. But <a href="http://www.juliarestoinroitfeld.com/" target="_blank">just for the record</a>:</p>
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<p>Born and raised in Paris, France, Julia Restoin Roitfeld developed an appreciation for the arts at an early age. Her surrounding environment consisted of people involved in every aspect of the creative world, exposing her to fashion, art, photography and advertising. Realizing her desire was to build a foundation in this realm, Julia enrolled in the Parsons Paris School of Art and Design for a BBA in the design and management program, which entailed both business oriented and artistic classes. She eventually transferred to complete her degree at Parsons in New York City.</p>
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